Couples become financially secure by building their net worth. Net worth is calculated by subtracting your liabilities (what you owe) from your assets (what you own). It is a snapshot of where you currently stand.

There are lots of net worth calculators online, such as this one from Get Smarter About Money or, you can make up your own spreadsheet so you can compare it from year-to-year.

Why should you track your net worth?

To start building your net worth you need to understand where you are starting from today so you can plan where you want to go. Go through your statements and record your current assets and liabilities. If you don’t know the current value of an asset, do a bit of research.

It may be disheartening to see a negative net worth. This is quite common when you are first starting out with a large mortgage and/or other debts, and little in the way of savings. Or, you might discover that you are satisfied with where you are right now and you just need to stick with your plan.

Related: The right way to calculate net worth

You can grow your net worth two ways.

  1. Reduce your debts – mortgage, loans and credit card balances, and
  2. Grow your assets – home, investments, or business

People who regularly track their net worth make greater progress on their goals than those you don’t.

Financial planning for couples: What are you worth?

How do you measure up?

We all like to compare ourselves to others to see where we stand. But, the problem with most on-line calculators is they only take one reference point into consideration – either your age or your current income. Here’s one that’s a bit more detailed from MoneySense.

However, your net worth should really be based on what your goals are for the future. As author Stephen Covey states, “begin with the end in mind.” You can determine where you want to be with a retirement calculator which factors in taxes and inflation and approximate what your home will be worth in the future with an inflation calculator.

Say you’ve determined that you will need a net worth of $2 million by age 65 – not an unreasonable amount for the average 30 to 50-year-old couple to aim for. How will this play out?

Working backward, here is an example of net-worth milestones as laid out in Lesley Scorgie’s book The Modern Couple’s Money Guide:

AGE NET WORTH AGE NET WORTH
25 0 50 $ 700,000
30 $ 70,000 55 $1,000,000
35 $ 165,000 60 $1,400,000
40 $ 300.000 65 $2,000,000
45 $465,000

Create a 5-year plan to set your own targets for net worth growth and each year decide on how you will get there.

Your plan may require some changes in your spending patterns. You may decide to implement a rigorous debt reduction strategy. Your household income is also an important component of net worth growth. Perhaps you can increase your income by getting a promotion at work, working full time instead of part time, having a side business, or changing jobs entirely.

Monitoring net worth growth

The best way to monitor your net worth growth is to do periodic updates to your personal net worth tracker – at a minimum of once a year. You’ll be in a better position to know if your financial situation is improving.

If you find you’re getting off track, do some course corrections and carry on. Growth may not be linear due to life circumstances and market fluctuations. However, when you implement the twin strategies of reducing debt and growing assets you will see that net worth figure grow. There’s nothing more exciting than watching yourself get closer and closer to financial freedom.

Final thoughts

Net worth is the single best indictor of your financial health and wealth. Building net worth is not merely based on how much money you make; it’s about protecting and keeping the money you’ve worked hard to earn. The greater your net worth, the more financial security you have.

You can find some net worth benchmarks for curiosity’s sake, or to get inspiration. Then focus on yourselves and maximizing your own net worth.

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