Is Outsourcing The Key To Happiness?

Is Outsourcing The Key To Happiness?

In his best selling book, The 4-Hour Workweek, author Tim Ferriss explains how outsourcing your to-do list can result in a more ideal work-life balance. Instead of being glued to your phone and email like most busy professionals and entrepreneurs, Ferris recommends delegating the time-consuming, unpleasant, or simply boring tasks in both your professional and personal life.

“Just as one example, if you can find someone, let’s say, to compile Excel spreadsheets for you for $12.50 an hour, if you make $25 an hour, that’s an immediate 100% return on investment – not to mention what you were able to do with the time you free for yourself.”

Ferriss would hire virtual assistants from India or the Philippines to handle repetitive tasks like scheduling interviews, doing research on prospective clients, and managing his calendar of appointments. It freed up his time to focus on the things he was best at or that he enjoyed.

Today it’s more and more common to outsource household tasks such as cleaning, laundry, car maintenance, lawn care, and even meal preparation. Yes, hiring a maid is no longer just for the wealthy. Many busy families pay for a cleaner to come in every week or two to vacuum, do laundry, clean bathrooms, and tidy the house.

Outsourcing your way to happiness

New York Times columnist Carl Richards broached the subject of outsourcing in this article titled, “Happiness = Hiring a Maid. Really?

Richards quoted research which found that paying someone else to complete unenjoyable daily tasks could result in greater life satisfaction, and that outsourcing housework you dislike could even save your marriage.

But when Richards shared these findings with his friends and colleagues the idea was met with anger and hostility. His tax lawyer friend who charges $300 per hour still changes the oil in his car. Another friend who earned $50 per hour still bakes his own bread that he could easily buy with a $5 bill.

What was missing in the study is the satisfaction that comes from doing basic things well yourself. Why does everything have to fit into an economic model?

My experience with outsourcing

For about two years my wife and I hired a cleaner to come in bi-weekly and tackle the big cleaning jobs like vacuuming and cleaning the bathrooms. This was when our kids were younger and we just didn’t have the time (or energy) to stay on top of the household cleaning. It cost around $150 to $175 per month.

We stopped outsourcing household cleaning once both of our kids were in school. Besides the fact that we had more time to do it ourselves, we also found it stressful on the nights before the cleaner came. We’d frantically pick up everything off the floor and tidy so the cleaner didn’t think we were animals (We weren’t. We just had toddlers). It was too much.

I’ve outsourced lawn care on-and-off over the years. I don’t have the greenest thumb, for one, plus I like to use my weekends to write and work on financial plans. In this case it’s a clear economic decision. Pay $75 per month for lawn care so I can earn many times that by writing an article or completing a financial plan.

Last summer I didn’t arrange the lawn care soon enough and our usual company was booked. I thought it would be easy to do the work myself but by August the grass was patchy and brown. Epic fail!

My wife makes her own sourdough bread. Yes, we know we can easily afford to buy bread at the store. But there’s something oddly satisfying about making something from scratch and knowing exactly what goes into it.

Finally, many online entrepreneurs I know have embraced the virtual assistant to handle various tasks such as scheduling, email, research, and graphic design. Outside of web design and maintenance (thanks Justin!) I haven’t ventured down that path as my wife and I handle the day-to-day operations of our online business. So when you send me an email you can rest assured it’s actually me replying to it!

Final thoughts

Outsourcing makes a lot of sense from an economic perspective. If you earn $50 an hour then why not pay someone $12 an hour to do an unpleasant or time-consuming task?

But where do we draw the line? Is your time still worth $50 an hour when you’re off the clock and home watching Netflix?

On the other hand, you shouldn’t feel bad about outsourcing things you generally dislike or don’t have the skillset to perform. I’ve never changed the oil in my car and will gladly pay $60 for someone else to do it.

Related: Worthwhile fees to pay

That said, some people take outsourcing to the extreme – to the point of outsourcing the reading of bedtime stories (<—father of the year!). But, hey, who am I to judge?

Is outsourcing the key to happiness? I think in many cases outsourcing some things not only makes economic sense but can lead to a happier lifestyle. It all depends on what you do with the time saved.

In some cases, like when I outsource lawn care to spend time writing, there’s a clear and direct economic trade-off. In other cases, like hiring a cleaner so you can spend more time with your family, it might be more of a lifestyle decision.

What tasks do you outsource? What do you insist on doing yourself? Let me know in the comments.

Print Friendly, PDF & Email


  1. Nicole on April 8, 2019 at 10:57 am

    at times I have outsourced house cleaning, yard fertilizing (my lawn never looked better), and car maintenance. I now do the house cleaning myself – although if I found someone who could deal with the dogs I might consider it again….

  2. Brian So on April 8, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Things that are beyond my expertise will be outsourced. But if there are things that can be fun to do periodically like trimming the hedges or painting a room, then I’m definitely not outsourcing them. These little things are part of what makes life exciting.

  3. Claire on April 8, 2019 at 8:42 pm

    My annual personal income tax return is the one thing I outsource without fail. Could I do it myself? Sure (and I have done) – but I dislike it intensely, even when tax software is walking me through it. The relief I feel by outsourcing this to a competent accountant is definitely worth the fee.

  4. Cheryl on April 8, 2019 at 11:54 pm

    I’m with Claire on the income tax. I hire an accountant even though I’m good with numbers and software and could probably do it myself. However, I’m a procrastinator. I’d still be thinking of doing the taxes well into the summer and getting stressed out about being late. I challenge myself to get my tax information to the accountant before end of March. The only way I can do that is to put all my tax forms in my underwear drawer as they come in, and then it just really annoys me to see papers in there because I have to go in there everyday. I want to move them along as soon as I can. Everything else in my life I still procrastinate on!

  5. Kevin on April 10, 2019 at 10:06 am

    We keep our house tidy (no kids) and have someone come in biweekly on a Friday while we’re at work to deep clean for a nominal fee, which includes supplies. The satisfaction of a spotless house coming into a weekend is worth every cent.

  6. Phyllis on April 14, 2019 at 8:34 am

    One reason I didn’t want to outsource stuff when we had children at home was so that they would learn basic life skills. Things like housecleaning were expected or everyone who lived in our home. I have seen young adults who have no idea how to keep a home because they have never seen it done. We live on a farm and have a huge yard to keep which was how our children earned money. We didn’t expect them to take of our property for free. Did we have nice straight lawn mower lines? Often not when they were first learning but two of the three worked for a landscaping company and at golf courses as their first jobs. We worked together with our children and as a bonus they learned some skills that provided them with employment. But I really dislike cleaning windows…hmmm, maybe I’ll pay the grandkids:)

    • Beth on April 14, 2019 at 12:18 pm

      My parents were of the same opinion, and I’m glad! It was one less stress when I moved away from home to attend university.

Leave a Comment

Join More Than 10,000 Subscribers!

Sign up now and get our free e-Book- Financial Management by the Decade - plus new financial tips and money stories delivered to your inbox every week.